We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition...
- On worries! - On worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
All right.
We have two very special couples with us for today.
They look more alike...
- than real family members. - Right.
Cooking expert Lee Hye Jung and comedian Hong Yun Hwa.
- Nice to see you. - Welcome.
(You two make a great team.)
Kim Seung Hyun and Kim Un Joong from "Mr. House Husband".
(Kim Un Joong, Seung Hyun's dad, and actor Kim Seung Hyun)
(Here I am.)
You're a celebrity now.
I bowed to him,
and he made a deeper bow, saying,
"Hello, Mr. Shin."
It's because I debuted before him.
- He just debuted. - That's right.
When you were asked to be on this show...
alone with your son,
did you get nervous?
Yeong Ja, this is my second year on TV.
- I don't get nervous anymore. - This is your second year.
- I see. - When you go out with your dad,
are people more interested in him than you?
Many people want to take pictures with us.
- I thought they were talking to me. - Hey.
Can I say something?
(The beginner is very enthusiastic.)
He cuts in every time his son talks.
Let me tell you something.
When we were shooting "Mr. House Husband" recently,
400 to 500 people...
shouted my name instead of Seung Hyun's.
- "Go, Kim Un Joong!" - They wanted me to take pictures.
I felt it was wrong.
I want Seung Hyun to become popular.
It made me worried.
But you don't look worried at all.
(Laughing)
You look very happy.
You seem to be enjoying it. I'm jealous.
I'm free-riding these days.
But these two look even more like family.
You've seen Yun Hwa do an impression of you, right?
- Yes. - What do you think of it?
She's good. She's very good,
but she exaggerates a lot.
You have to exaggerate when you do an impression.
Please do her signature line for us.
She sounds so kind.
"She's good. She's very good."
"Yun Hwa made both of us popular."
But you have to exaggerate even more, right?
(Inhaling)
(She's good!)
Half air and half sound.
Because Yun Hwa did a funny impression of you,
- people must ask you to do it too. - Yes.
When I give a lecture or something,
everyone just stares at me quietly.
When I ask if there are any questions, they raise their hands...
and ask me to say, "How tasty would that be?"
- Do you do it? - Yes.
When they ask me to do it, I can't say no. And if I do it,
- everyone laughs. - That's nice.
Can you two say, "How tasty would that be", together?
- How tasty would that be? - How tasty would that be?
Yes, yes, yes.
(Satisfied)
You have to make it really tasty.
Hye Jung, you're not bothered...
by your husband anymore, are you?
We've been married for 40 years now.
My biggest concern is...
- my unmarried daughter. - Oh, my.
Ma'am, what about my son?
No.
Dad.
You shouldn't ask her so directly.
Without any explanation, he said, "What about my son?"
Hye Jung looks surprised.
- Suddenly... - Seung Hyun is too handsome.
My daughter would feel uncomfortable.
Seung Hyun...
We have three worries today as usual.
Show us the keywords, please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
- "Mountain Problem". - "Life Is Not Easy".
- "Mountain..." - "My Husband Changed".
"Life Is Not Easy".
Hello, I'm going through the biggest crisis in my 11 years of life.
I'm a girl in fourth grade.
- Oh, my. - My nine-year-old little sister...
in second grade is driving me crazy.
"Where did my chocolate go?"
"I ate it."
"What? Who said you could eat it?"
"Why didn't you even clean up?"
"Why do I have to do that? You do it."
My goodness.
(My goodness.)
In addition, on our way to school...
"Hey, stay on the sidewalk."
- "Why do you care?" - Oh, my.
Honk honk. Screech!
"I told you it was dangerous."
"Mind your own business."
"Gosh."
She can't stop pinching me and hitting me...
- Her little sister? - on the back and the head.
- My goodness. - I think...
she expresses her anger in violent ways.
Do you know what's worse?
"Why do you keep hitting me? Do you want me to teach you a lesson?"
"I told you two not to fight!"
"Mom, she started it."
That drives you crazy.
- Has everyone experienced it? - "You..."
"Didn't I tell you to act like a big sister?"
Mom always takes my little sister's side.
I wish my little sister didn't exist.
Can you make my wish come true?
My goodness.
(I wish my little sister didn't exist.)
Yun Hwa, you have a big sister, right?
Yes, she is three years older than me.
When we were little, we fought a lot...
because of people around us.
My big sister is very thin.
She was thin as a kid too.
That often puts us in trouble, right?
My sister is 168cm tall,
and she's never weighed more than 54kg.
I swear I've never stolen her food.
- But people on the street say, - Exactly.
"Stop stealing your big sister's food."
- People get the wrong idea. - That's frustrating.
- "I never stole your food." - It makes you hate her.
- We end up fighting. - We're always frustrated.
- Yes. - We always are.
Let's meet the girl who sent the story.
Please come out!
(Who is 11 years old and at war with her little sister?)
(Cute)
Seung Hyun.
(Jeon Ji Yun)
- Oh, my. - How adorable.
- She's so cute. - She's 11 years old. 4th grade.
Hello. I'm Jeon Ji Yun, Class 3, Grade 4.
- Okay. - Okay.
(Proud)
Your little sister is giving you a hard time?
Yes. When there are chocolates...
or chips,
- she always takes mine. - She takes yours.
Mom said, "Can you share your chocolate with your sister?"
So I gave my sister 2 out of 4.
- That's fair. - But my sister wanted...
chocolate in the fridge too.
I wanted to eat it the next day.
She was stressing me out.
I got angry...
and told her to stop.
Mom said, "If you keep doing that, I'll throw out all chocolates."
- Did she throw them out? - I gave everything to my sister.
I was so frustrated.
After eating hers, she takes mine too.
You should have eaten everything...
- right away. - So...
- Eat everything right away. - I told her,
"You already ate yours."
"Stop taking mine."
What did she say?
"No. I want to eat yours."
Is she really that shameless?
Yes, she was really shameless.
(She was really shameless.)
You're right.
Does she pinch and hit you too?
Yes. I even have bruises here.
- Here? - Oh, my.
(That's too bad.)
On our way to school, there is a cross walk without traffic lights.
Once, my sister was almost hit by a truck.
So I pulled her backpack.
My sister got angry that I pulled her backpack...
and hit me on the head and the back.
- Your sister? - Yes.
- Even though you saved her? - When I explained,
she just said, "Too bad. Sorry."
She said that?
"Too bad. Sorry."
- That was it. - How cute.
Why couldn't you stop caring about her like she said?
Mom told me to take good care of her.
- Right. - Right.
Your sister doesn't listen to you.
- Your sister... - When did she become like that?
She was nice until she was five.
- Until she was five? - Until she was five?
But when she turned six, she suddenly...
- When she turned six? - Yes.
How did you feel when she suddenly changed?
I was shocked.
You were shocked?
She must have been very shocked.
(We fight every day.)
Among the things your sister does,
what upsets you the most?
What surprises you the most?
One day, she said she'd play in the playground until 6pm.
But she came home at 8:30pm.
- Your sister? - Yes.
She came home late without saying anything?
- Yes. - It really got on my nerves.
(It really got on my nerves.)
- It got on your nerves? - It got on your nerves?
- Mom didn't scold her a lot. - She cares a lot about her sister.
"Mi Ju, you shouldn't do this."
"Don't go to a friend's place without telling me first."
- That was it. - Your mom?
Do you think that's why your sister can be...
- so rude to you? - Yes.
Because your mom takes her side?
- Yes. - Because your mom has her back?
You two are sisters.
Why don't you try to be more friendly...
I want to, but my sister...
talks back to me so much.
In addition,
she's started using bad words.
"Isn't that kitty so cute?"
"I'm so sleepy. It's driving me crazy."
- She says that. - "It's driving me crazy."
- She must copy other kids. - Then...
who did you learn the expression, "get on my nerves", from?
My mom says that every day.
Your mom?
- There is always a reason. - Of course.
Your mom says something gets on her nerves?
Let's meet her little sister.
When we were reading the story,
she giggled.
- Hello. - Hello.
How cute.
Is what your sister said true?
- Yes. - Do you admit it?
- You're very cool. You admitted it. - She admitted it.
Is it true that you pinched and hit your sister?
- Yes. - I see.
Do you admit that what you did is wrong?
Yes.
- She's a good girl. - Hey.
She's very smart.
- She wants to wrap this up fast. - Exactly.
Why did you hit your sister?
My sister hits me a lot too.
She does?
Did you hit her because she hit you first?
- Yes. - What's going on?
- She... - But...
I sometimes hit her first.
So she does hit her sister first.
You shouldn't hit your big sister, should you?
- No. - Then why did you do that?
I hit her because...
(Nervous)
She doesn't let me touch her slimy monster..
Slimy monster?
I let her touch mine,
but she doesn't let me.
You got hurt?
- Oh, my. - She got hurt.
You let her touch your slimy monster,
- but she doesn't let you? - No.
She is just a little nice to me.
She isn't very nice to me.
Do you think your sister changed recently?
How did she change?
She keeps...
pretending to be cute.
(The older sister is shocked.)
(It's hilarious.)
- That's so funny. - You're the one who do that.
Why do you say that?
Does she pretend to be cute?
- Does she pretend to be cute? - I mean...
Whenever I do something wrong,
she says I'm talking nonsense.
- When did I say that? - Also,
when I say "hey" to her,
she pinches me right away.
- Why do you say "hey"? - To your older sister?
(Annoyed)
Do you feel irritated these days?
Do you think you entered adolescence?
Yes, kind of.
- Why? - Why?
How are you feeling?
When my little sister annoys me,
I wish she was gone.
- I want to die. - She's become sensitive.
(I want to die.)
- You've become sensitive. - You get annoyed.
Do you feel depressed?
You don't want your sister to play tricks on you?
- No. - Do you feel lonely?
- Yes. - That's menopause.
That's not adolescence.
- My goodness. - Really...
Is it true?
Do you also wish your big sister was gone?
- Yes. - Why?
Why? She's so nice.
She doesn't let me touch her slimy monster.
If I touch it without her permission, she pinches me.
She pinches me hard, and then I pinch her.
And then she pinches me again.
We keep fighting.
Their parents are here.
Did you know the situation was so bad?
Not really.
Dads are like that.
Kids these days use harsh words.
When they fight at home,
I just tell them to stop.
I try not to take sides.
- You try not to take sides. - Yes.
When your second daughter is rude to her big sister,
do you scold her?
I don't think our first daughter is any better.
When they call me,
it's always...
because they're fighting and want to tell on each other.
Then I choose to be a bad mom...
and ram their heads into each other.
(Shocked)
You ram their heads into each other?
Not very hard. Just lightly.
- Like that? - Yes.
They fight too much.
I'm a bit tired of it.
Did you know your first daughter entered adolescence?
Adolescence?
She thinks she entered adolescence.
I don't think so.
She said something shocking.
If I didn't have a little sister...
If I was an only child...
- Would it be better? - Yes.
- I... - I know.
I felt that way too.
- Why are you crying? - Oh, my.
(What should I do?)
Can someone take over?
All right.
(Why do you hate me so much?)
- You also said you wanted to die. - Yes.
That was so shocking.
My little sister stresses me out.
She is rude to me.
She came into my classroom...
and said, "Jeon Ji Yun is stupid."
- She came into your classroom? - My classmates were surprised.
That must have hurt.
Your only sister came and said that.
Yes, so...
But if you die,
you can't see your mom and dad anymore.
Seeing my little sister drives me crazy.
(Seeing my little sister drives me crazy.)
(Is it that bad?)
Did you know your first daughter was feeling this way?
When she said that for the first time, I couldn't say anything.
When she said that for the second time,
one of the moms in the neighborhood advised me...
that I should tell my daughter I'd throw her off the balcony.
She told me that would stop my daughter from saying that again.
- So I did that. - What is she talking about?
- That's too aggressive. - You said that to her?
I grabbed my daughter and said, "I'll throw you off the balcony."
(Speechless)
I said, "Do you want to know what it is like to die?"
That must have shocked her. She didn't say that ever again.
Afterwards, she and I talked a lot.
"Is your little sister giving you a hard time?"
"But if you feel that way, it makes me sad."
She cried so much, so it broke my heart.
It broke your heart.
She had to say an extreme thing even if she didn't want to.
How did you feel when you heard that?
I had no idea about this.
- You didn't know? - You didn't know?
- Dads... - My wife didn't tell me.
(You're too indifferent.)
(This is why I feel lonely.)
When do you feel loneliest?
I ask Mom to give me food,
and she tells me to wait until she's finished.
Finished with what?
She plays games.
She plays games?
- She plays games? - So does Dad.
Dad too?
Yes. As soon as Dad comes home, he takes a shower...
- and starts playing games. - He starts playing games.
How many hours a day does your mom spend on playing games?
3 to 4 hours.
- 3 to 4 hours? - Does your dad play games...
until you go to bed?
When we wake up, he's already playing games.
- Do you think... - My goodness.
your parents are too busy playing games to listen to you?
Yes. I asked Mom, "Can you stop playing games..."
"and talk to us instead?"
And she got angry and said,
"You're going to say you want to die again, aren't you?"
- Did she say that? - We only talk right before bed.
Do you want to talk more to your mom?
Yes.
(She still needs her mom.)
What kind of games do you play?
Your child is depressed.
- Sir... - When I come home,
the kids are playing with their phones.
Even if I try to make them do something else,
they're not really interested.
Don't use them as an excuse. You should ask them to stop.
Sir, think about it.
In the old days, people worked on Saturdays too.
- Right. - You work only five days a week.
- The rest of the time... - My husband works almost every day.
He works on Sundays too.
- Really? - You'll have to understand him.
You should...
Look at her face, Yeong Ja.
You're 11 years old now.
(She's so cute.)
I have a lot to say about games.
I don't play games where I have to go raiding.
The games I play...
(She starts using jargon.)
I mostly fight in the battlegrounds.
- "Battlegrounds". - Battlegrounds show up...
every 30 to 40 minutes.
Then I have to play.
If Ji Yun asks me to give her food right at that moment,
I tell her, "Hold on. Give me 10 to 15 minutes."
- It's a crucial moment. - Yes.
If I don't do that, I have to wait another 30 to 40 minutes.
I don't even know what "battlegrounds" are,
but are they more important than your child's feelings?
I'm only a human.
I have to do all the house chores and take care of the kids...
all by myself. I needed a break.
The kids cling on to me so much.
"Mom, mom, mom." They do that.
- They cling on to me. - You're their mom.
- You're their mom. - But...
I really need a break.
They're children only for a limited time.
- You can play games later. - But...
I have something to say regarding that.
My first daughter is very independent and stubborn.
She hated holding my hand until she was six.
I accepted that she is independent and likes to keep things to herself.
Even a counselor told me so.
I was told to leave her alone, so that's what I did.
But now she says she needs me.
- Are you confused? - I'm puzzled.
- "Don't come to me." - Are you tired?
She must be tired too.
(She is too tired to bond with her child.)
(She needs to change.)
When did you feel saddest because of your parents?
I was on a swing,
and a boy splashed...
rotten milk on me.
My clothes got soaked.
Did you tell your mom?
Yes. She said, "Just wash your clothes."
"It's no big deal." Even my hair was soaked.
Did you want her to comfort you?
- "Who did that to you?" - Exactly.
I wanted her to say that.
She wanted her mom to take her side.
(She desperately wants her parents' attention.)
She's a little child, but I feel so sad.
Anything can happen in her life.
If she can be sure that her parents will always be...
on her side,
- she wouldn't feel lonely or sad... - Exactly.
at her age.
As she grows up,
if she feels that no one is on her side,
she won't stop feeling lonely.
She'll feel lonely throughout her life.
For the rest of her life.
You should pay more attention to her now.
If her mom can't, at least her dad should...
- be on her side. - Right.
You should let her lean on you.
(She still needs her parents' love and attention.)
How do you want your parents to react to you?
I won a prize in my art class,
but Dad only cared about his games.
He wasn't really interested.
Do you want them to compliment you more?
Yes. Both of them...
If you whimper, they won't take you seriously.
You're going through adolescence. You are 11. Speak confidently, okay?
Speak like a grown-up.
- A grown-up? - She's not an adult yet.
She's just 11.
She's not an adult yet.
You are 11. You are pretty much a grown-up, aren't you?
- Yes. - Tell him not to do it.
I feel awkward to talk to my dad.
- I... - You have to talk to him.
I am scared of him.
(She's scared of him.)
- You are scared of him? - Let me ask them a question.
- There's a wall between them. - Ma'am.
(There is a big wall between the father and the daughter.)
(Why is she scared of him?)
- Why are you scared of him? - Why are you scared of him?
I have a bad memory from when I was young. He punished me.
He hit my calves because I wouldn't speak.
I was already feeling bad.
- I think... - She's hurt.
- seeing you angry traumatized her. - It traumatized her.
(She can't easily open her heart to him.)
Why don't you approach Ji Yun first so that...
she can talk to you without a worry?
Ji Yun, talk to me comfortably.
(That would make her feel very uncomfortable.)
- Even I can't talk comfortably. - Doesn't he sound like a bully?
- "Talk to me comfortably." - He does.
What was that?
Look at her. She's crying.
It was when my daughter was about four years old.
My husband yelled at me very badly that day.
And that made me very upset.
You know a willow branch, right?
Holding it in her hand, she came towards me. "Mom!"
My daughter looks so much like my husband.
I suddenly became so upset. She looked just like him,
and she was wearing glasses just like him.
(Laughing)
She was coming into the house like that.
So I took the branch from her hand and hit her with it.
Since that day, for about 10 years,
she and I had the most difficult relationship.
Was that why?
That became the reason.
While she was going through the adolescence,
I couldn't tell her anything,
and she didn't say anything to me.
She was falsely blamed for looking like her father.
When my daughter was in second year of middle school,
professional basketball became popular.
She was a big fan of Chun Hee Chul.
So I researched about his performance...
like how many rebounds and shoots he got on each game and all.
I took note of everything and told her about it.
"This is how Hee Chul did today."
I jumped into her world.
- You created a bond. - I did that for two years.
- She's amazing. You got close. - That's what I did.
One day, my daughter said this to me while crying.
"Mom, it really hurt me."
"I felt so upset, and I didn't even look at Dad since that day."
"I felt alone in the house."
"There was a time when I wanted to end my life."
She said that.
We hugged and cried our hearts out.
- It was resolved. - I'm reminded of that time.
I don't know if Ji Yun is going through something similar.
But if you try to sing the song she sings...
and spend time more time with her,
- things will get better. - Right.
That was a great story.
(Only the parents can beat...)
(the child's loneliness with love.)
What would you like to say to your parents?
What do you want them to do from now on?
(She gets emotional.)
When my little sister...
- Don't cry. - Don't cry.
When she speaks rudely to me,
I want you to scold her.
Don't cry. don't cry.
(She must've been feeling really sad.)
(Don't cry.)
I want you to talk to me.
Don't you want to be hugged?
I want you to do that.
They are bad at expressing their love.
Right.
Why don't you come here and give her a hug?
Come here.
Let's ask her dad to come too.
- Yes. - He should come too.
Her little sister should too.
(Hug her tightly.)
(She's already happy.)
- Get up, Ji Yun. - Come here.
Ji Yun,
your parents are here.
- Come to the center. - Run. Run to them.
(Mommy. Daddy.)
(She's always wanted to be embraced by her parents.)
(You will always be on my side, right?)
(It's not difficult to express your love.)
(Tell your daughter that you love her very much.)
- Ji Yun. - Hug your dad too.
(She hugs her dad.)
(She opens her heart to her dad.)
Hug her like this.
(Is this happiness?)
Come this far.
(She's really happy.)
Look how brightly she's smiling.
Her dad's hug made her so happy.
Did you love being hugged by your dad?
Look at her.
- She's shy. - Yes.
She's 11.
What would you like to tell your daughter?
Thank you so much for growing so beautifully.
(For the first time, she hears her mother's heartfelt words.)
Mommy loves you very much, so don't be in pain. Okay?
(Okay.)
- Dad. - Dad, you too.
Ji Yun, Daddy loves you very much too.
(He's shy.)
It's because he's from Gyeongsang Province.
Instead of playing games,
I will try to spend more time with you.
All right.
(I love you.)
- Little sister. - Tell him you love him.
Mi Ju,
apologize to her.
Tell her you won't upset her.
Ji Yun, I keep upsetting you.
I keep talking back to you.
- She's sorry. - She's sorry.
She's sorry.
Why are you holding two mics?
It's like she's holding a press conference.
I am sorry I pinched you and hit you.
She's adorable.
I love you, Ji Yun.
(Let's be nice to each other from now on.)
Mi Ju, I am sorry...
I always pinched you...
and hit you. I love you.
- Well done. - That was lovely.
- You are lovely. - They are lovely.
(They will grow up as the closest sisters.)
Thank you for being brave and apologizing first.
Dong Yeob will buy you the sticky monster.
- It's "slimy" monster. - "Slimy" monster.
(It's slimy monster.)
(Laughing)
"Sticky monster" sounds terrifying.
Sticky monster sounds terrifying.
("Sticky" and "slimy" sound the same.)
All right. Let's begin with Seung Hyun.
Coming here and talking about it...
seems to have resolved the issue between the sisters.
Even if he works all week,
he should make time...
and take his daughters to a theme park.
Then I think this problem will be solved in no time.
When I was young, I used to always fight with my sister.
"Why do you always scold me?"
The solution is to scold both regardless of who did wrong.
To not get scolded,
- They side with each other. - they side with each other.
They become one, and they go for a win-win strategy.
Even now, when things get tough, I go to my sister.
(Yun Hwa thinks it's a worry.)
I don't think it's a worry.
I think this can be solved.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's see how many votes she got. Please reveal the result.
"Life Is Not Easy".
(The last digit is 5.)
It's over 100.
- 100. - 100.
105.
How did you know?
(She got 105 votes.)
- It's titled "My Husband Changed". - "My Husband Changed".
Hello.
(I like Tae Gyun.)
I am a mother of two girls. They are 27 and 24,
and I am in my 50s.
Since the girls were young,
my husband has adored them.
"My pretty daughters."
"Who made you so beautiful?"
But around when our girls entered middle school,
my husband started to change.
The problem was this.
"It's hot."
"Is it hot, my darling? Do you want some ice cream?"
"I feel hot too."
"I told you not to talk like a baby, didn't I?"
(No way.)
He only changed his attitude towards our first daughter.
He's still the same even though the girls are all grown-ups now.
"Hey, sit up when you are using the computer."
"You are here, my darling."
"Dad! Why do you only yell at me?"
"Our first daughter has now turned her back against him."
They don't talk anymore.
What makes me sad is...
that our first daughter is different from others,
and she needs to be treated with more love and care.
"Honey, is our first daughter a stranger to you?"
"Do you only consider our second daughter your child?"
"Why do you treat them so differently?"
"Don't ask. I don't know."
Why did my husband become like this?
(She wants him to treat their daughters equally.)
(What's his reason?)
Things are tough for the first daughters.
It's the time of ordeal for the first daughters.
What did you think of the story?
My husband...
always fights with our son.
He always loses to our daughter.
When our son says to him, "Did you sleep well, Dad?"
He says, "Of course I did. What could've possibly happened?"
- Right. - He yells at him.
Right.
He yells at him.
He's not a fool only when it comes to our daughter.
He's just a fool.
Considering that, I can sympathize with her.
She must've felt so bad to take the matter here.
I can completely understand.
Let's bring her in.
Please come on out.
(Who's worried about her husband treating two daughters differently?)
Come on in.
Welcome.
(Lee Yang Mi)
Your story was mostly...
about your husband favoring your second daughter.
When our first daughter comes home, he doesn't care.
But when our second daughter comes, he asks how she is.
He even sings.
Does he talk sweetly?
Yes. He always sings.
You seem nervous. Do you want some water?
It sounds like you are talking about another person's daughter.
Do you want some water?
- She's too nervous. - She's nervous.
You didn't look here at all.
She's too nervous.
I actually look pretty in real life, don't I?
- Yes. - Right.
(She's embarrassed.)
You made her feel more awkward.
- I am sorry. - She's very honest.
- She's sorry. - That's even more hurting.
- "I'm sorry." - "I'm sorry."
She spoke her heart.
Since when did he change?
When I gave birth to our second child,
he was disappointed that it was a daughter again.
- He wanted a son. - Yes.
He used to only hold the first child.
He fed her...
and bought her snacks.
Now it's the opposite.
I even feel jealous.
I asked her to cook noodles for me.
- You asked. - Yes. He ignored me.
When our second daughter asked,
he cooked her noodles.
He bought meat and marinated it for her.
He even chops kimchi for her too.
In the story, you said your first daughter...
is a little different.
May I ask what you mean by that?
Our first daughter is diagnosed with...
third degree intellectual disability.
Third degree intellectual disability.
(She must need more love and care.)
She's more intelligent that retarded children,
but she's not as clever as normal children.
She was diagnosed...
as she was entering middle school.
That's when she and my husband stopped talking to each other.
So she got hurt even more.
You think it dragged until now.
Yes.
(Perhaps she got more hurt because she thinks her dad is avoiding her.)
If I were your husband,
I would love...
the first child more and care for her more.
It's hard to understand him.
Our first child whined a lot.
Whenever she did, he yelled at her.
"Why do you always whine?"
And that turned into a fight.
After a while, they stopped talking to each other.
You must've come out here to improve their relationship.
Honestly, what made you come here?
Since elementary school, our first child has been bullied.
(She's been bullied in school.)
That stripped away...
her confidence.
She has neither confidence nor self-esteem.
She's 27 years old now, you know.
I don't want things to get worse than it is now.
So I came out here to help her recover.
Your husband must also have things to say.
- Right. - Let's hear from him.
Hello, sir.
Hello.
(Who's her husband who only adores his second child?)
Your wife came here because she is worried.
What brought you here?
My second daughter...
watches this drama often.
She suggested that we come here, so we did.
Fortunately, your second daughter is a fan of this drama.
She's the lead actress.
(She's the lead actress of Hello.)
I am the lead actress.
And these two men are fighting for me.
(The two men are fighting for Yeong Ja.)
Fight. Fight for me.
Fight.
- Fight. - You said you'd go out with her.
(They try to push each other into dating Yeong Ja.)
(He strongly refuses.)
(Another tough day for Yeong Ja ends.)
(This is fun.)
Do you realize that you treat your first daughter...
and second daughter differently?
When I came home from a long trip,
my second daughter used to run to me...
and tell me that she missed me. She told me that she loves me.
- Right. - She used to give me kisses.
But my first daughter...
only stared at me and said nothing.
So it's true that I came to adore my second daughter more.
Your second daughter is cute and expressive.
Didn't you care less about her...
because you don't like her whining?
She always whines and...
complains about things.
It makes me think that she got it from me.
It makes me...
- resent myself. - You feel bad.
I felt bad about her having received my traits.
I cried so much inside.
As a parent, you want your child to inherit only your good traits,
- not the bad traits. - Of course.
But unless you express your feelings, she wouldn't know.
My husband...
He seems very sorry that she took after him.
He doesn't admit that our daughter...
is handicapped.
- It's because she's his. - He should've...
- comforted her for being bullied. - He should've comforted her.
But he never did.
It's not like he apologizes for what he did.
He never apologizes.
When I heard about the bullying,
my heart broke.
- Right. - I told my daughters...
to tell me if someone bullies them or hits them,
but she never told me about it.
But you heard it from your wife, didn't you?
- I cried so much inside. - You should've held her hands...
and comforted her.
Did you do that?
I cried so much inside.
But you just keep crying inside.
You only blame yourself. You feel bad that she took after you.
You even pray for her, but your daughter will never know...
how you feel.
- You never tell her. - You should've told her.
You should've comforted her.
(That's why things are tough for me in the middle.)
(Have I been too quiet?)
Your first daughter must yearn for your love.
Let's meet their daughters.
- Let's meet their first daughter. - Hello.
Hello.
(She's very cheerful.)
(Hello.)
We heard you often fight with your dad. Is it true?
Yes. Because we have the same blood type, Blood Type A,
we fight a lot.
Even when I throw a tantrum and whine,
he doesn't respond.
(Dad never responds.)
Why do you whine? You could just talk.
Why do you keep whining?
It's because he wouldn't respond.
I am very timid.
You don't have confidence.
You want to become close to your dad, right?
Yes.
Because things are awkward between us,
even when we go out to eat, I usually go with my mom.
Sometimes, my sister comes home late.
Even when Mom and I are around,
he only looks for my sister, and that makes me sad.
Tell us more about the times he made you feel sad.
It happened when I was in high school.
Wait.
It sounds like she's waiting to say it.
It sounds like you have a lot of built-up resentments.
Do you have a lot of resentments?
Yes. I have quite a lot.
- All right. - Tell us about everything.
One time, he was going on a trip with his friends.
He only asked my sister to come along.
Because of the stress I got from work,
I suffered from trigeminal neuralgia and gnathalgia.
Your jaw had a problem.
My mom...
looked for clinics for me.
But Dad didn't care.
Let's talk about each time.
Why did you only ask your second daughter to come along on the trip?
Why didn't you ask your first daughter?
I thought it would be too much if I took two daughters.
That's why I only asked my second daughter.
So it actually happened.
It's nice that...
you are admitting to your fault.
- Right. - But that's very bad.
Since you went on a trip with your second child,
you should've gone on a trip with your first child next.
Right. You make a good point.
- He realized it only now. - By the way,
Hold on a second.
Since it's bad if you take only one of your daughters,
couldn't you take...
your wife with you?
I never thought about it.
(Right.)
(Do you not care about me at all?)
Let me ask.
Did you try to be nicer to your dad?
Did you try greeting him nicely when he comes home?
I was indifferent to him.
- You see... - You could scream. "Dad!"
"Dad came home!"
Did he come home after being away for 50 years?
Because our first child wasn't well,
we didn't get to pay too much attention to our second child.
I've seen that happen a lot.
I sympathize with our second more...
because we have similar personalities.
Whenever I try to talk to her,
my first child comes and interferes.
I want to go on a trip with her,
but I can't because I am afraid of hurting my first child's feelings.
You want to spend time with your second child.
That might jeopardize your relationship with your second child.
Let's meet their second child. Please hold the mic.
What do you think about this?
Let's meet their second child. Please hold the mic.
What do you think about this?
- I've always thought it's a worry. - Really?
Yes. Whenever we eat outside,
I always sit next to Dad...
because my sister won't sit next to Dad.
When we go somewhere, we ride a bus.
She looks at her phone, and Dad looks out the window.
Because she's not well,
my dad tells me that...
I should act as the first child.
He tells me that I have to be the pillar of the family.
I heard that a lot of times.
Since you were young.
(Why would they say such a thing to a child?)
It made me think that I should assume my sister's role.
When I was in fifth grade,
I was playing with a classmate who had been bullied by class,
and I ended up being bullied too.
I didn't tell my parents because they had enough on their plate.
- You didn't tell them. - I told them only later.
(Not wanting to burden them, she kept it to herself.)
Does your dad know about that time?
Does he know? I don't know.
I don't know if he knows.
When we first heard the story, we thought she'd only be happy.
- No. - But within the family...
- She's in pain. - Her mom, her dad,
and her sister must be surprised to hear about this.
It must've been tough for the second daughter.
My sister and my dad are not in good terms.
And my parents sometimes fight too.
(Her parents fight too.)
(Are there problems between them too?)
She seems very quiet, so I didn't think they would fight.
Do they fight often?
Whenever they talk, they fight.
- About what? - They just fight.
They fight about small things.
For example, we were interviewed prior for the shoot.
When the writer asked when we could talk,
we asked Dad.
He said he was fine at 5pm in the afternoon.
And Mom said, "How is 5pm 'afternoon'?"
She said 5pm was considered evening.
(They fight over the pettiest things.)
- Did they fight about that? - Yes.
What is that?
My parents are exactly the same.
Mom and Dad...
fight about smallest things.
When I was in middle school, they had a big fight.
My dad said, "What's the point of living on like this?"
"I'm going to go and end my life."
"Only then the family will find peace."
He said that.
Hearing that, I thought that I should never...
meet a man like him.
Daughters are like that.
Sir, what do you think about that?
Right. Don't meet someone like me.
I want her to meet someone gentle.
Someone mellow with a warm heart.
I want her to meet someone kind, gentle, and good.
I prayed.
Why are you so serious about it?
(I am not good for anything.)
I once spotted my parents...
aggressively fighting because of me.
I used to learn violin when I was young.
To go to school, I had to play it in front of my dad...
every morning while he was having breakfast.
But my dad said...
I wouldn't have any trouble living even if I didn't play violin.
He said, "She doesn't look like a violinist, does she?"
He got up while having breakfast...
and kicked the violin.
He said the house is never quiet because of the darn violin.
The pain I got from seeing them fight was...
- It would stay with you forever. - worse than anything.
Whenever there was the slightest sound,
I ran and listened.
I worried that they might be fighting about me again.
- You became conscious. - I always got worried.
Since your daughter is in a special situation,
you want her to have more confidence...
and more self-esteem.
But seeing and hearing her parents fighting,
she would lose her confidence and self-esteem even more.
- Right. - That's how it works.
You want your first daughter to have self-esteem, don't you?
You want her to have high self-esteem, right?
- Yes. - For her to do that,
you should have high self-esteem first.
You keep reproaching and blaming yourself.
She can't possibly have high self-esteem when she sees that.
It's not true that you are not enough.
The problem is that you don't know how to express yourself.
It's the same with their mother.
How about you? When your husband comes home,
do you welcome him?
One day, I bought some pancakes.
- Your husband did? - I bought them...
to share with everyone. Spinning the bag,
I said, "Let's play, Sang Yeol."
- Is that his name? - She's so cute.
He's not laughing even now.
(Sang Yeol doesn't want to play at all.)
He doesn't want to play.
- That's a nice one. - Let's play, Sang Yeol.
What did your husband say?
He yelled.
"Just kill me."
(What? Why?)
- "Just kill me"? - Yes.
- In front of the kids? - Why did you say that?
- Why did you say that? - She was just being playful.
- She was asking you to play. - Inside, did you think,
"It's all my fault."
It didn't make me feel good.
I see.
(This is why we fight.)
Do you want her to...
treat you sweetly?
She should talk to me sweetly.
How do you want her to talk to you?
"You're home, darling. Well done."
- Right. - That's what you wanted,
but she said, "Let's play, Sang Yeol."
(That's why he got upset.)
"Just kill me."
- That's precisely what happened. - Try it now.
Isn't it cute though?
Sir, say, "I'm home."
I went in and came out.
"I went in and came out"?
(Go in where?)
He must be nervous.
- That's the direction. - It's his first time to act.
"He goes inside the house."
- Action. - Action.
I'm home.
(They are excited.)
Well done. Good job.
Are you in the office?
"How can I help you?" That's how you sound.
Ms. Lee, show her how it should be done.
Let's say she's your wife. Talk to her.
Action.
I am home.
You're home! Was it a long day?
You must be hungry. Go wash. I will fix you dinner.
I would do that.
(That was great.)
But she...
She still sounds a bit like her.
The newlywed should try it.
When my husband comes home, I actually say this.
Hooray! Our captain is home.
Hooray, hooray, hooray, hooray.
(Hooray, hooray, hooray, hooray)
Captain is here!
No way.
- You really do that? - I do that.
Then he dances with me.
What's for dinner?
We are ordering food today.
Hooray, hooray, hooray, hooray.
We are ordering food today.
Hooray, hooray, hooray, hooray.
That's what we do all the time.
- One more time. Be expressive. - Expressive.
She's too taciturn.
You're home, darling.
- You came fast. - You came fast.
You are hungry, aren't you?
I will fix you a meal fast. Go wash your hands.
- Your lines are too cute. - By the way...
The order is,
"Good job. You came fast. You are hungry, aren't you?"
"I will fix something delicious."
- "Hurry and wash your hands." - "Wash your hands and hurry back."
But if she says "Go wash yourself" first,
he will say, "Just kill me."
(Laughing)
"Just kill me!"
- "Just kill me!" - "I'm already tired."
(He's shy.)
- Try it again. - Sir, your line.
- Action. - Action.
Is everything well? I'm home.
(Show him your true feelings.)
(Please.)
- Just say what comes to your mind. - You're home! Well done, honey.
I love you.
(She aggressively confesses her love.)
She went even further.
I love you.
(They are surprised.)
She went even further. She said she loves him.
He loves it. Look, he loves it.
He smiled for the first time. He smiled for the first time.
She said she loves you. You have to say it back.
Yes. I love you too.
(I love you too.)
The younger sister doesn't look too happy. Is it awkward?
Yes.
In the back, you can do this. "Hooray, my parents!"
(I will try.)
(They are lovely.)
- Starting today... - Let's do it now.
Express your love to your first daughter too.
Daddy is sorry, Jung Eun.
I apologize if my actions have hurt you.
I hope you will forgive me.
Let's spend good times together.
He's sweet.
My goodness.
- First daughter. - Are you happy?
You should say something to your dad too.
Look at him and say something.
I hope you will make sure to wear the safety hat when you work.
I hope you will live a long and healthy life.
My goodness.
(They are touched.)
What do you think?
Are you glad you came out here?
- Yes. - Yes?
- She is... - She got emotional.
(Seeing the father and daughter being close makes her emotional.)
(I will try harder from now on.)
[VIU Ver] E418 Hello Counselor "Families with Worries" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
Darling,
(What she wants from her husband)
when we talk to you, please listen attentively.
When you do something wrong, I hope you will admit your fault...
and apologize.
My daughters, I am sorry...
that we made you watch us fight too often.
We will love each other and live happily.
(I believe you.)
(It warms her heart.)
Let's make it clear.
Your first daughter is fulfilling her duty as the first daughter.
She's working.
Sir, she deserves your respect. Don't you agree?
- Yes. - I agree.
Let's give it up for their first daughter.
Right.
Cheers, darling.
- Cheers! - Cheers!
Cheers!
Let's begin with Seung Hyun.
I think this isn't...
a worry either.
What's a worry for you then?
My family is the biggest worry.
- Hey. - Yes?
They clearly lack consideration, and that is a worry.
Why are you saying it isn't a worry?
I think it's a worry.
(Un Joong thinks it's a worry.)
It's like they are on a different show.
(You are watching Hello, not "Mr. House Husband".)
- It's like watching... - My father is my worry.
I will cast a vote...
to cheer for their second daughter.
I think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's find out the result.
What's the last digit?
Five. Here we go.
(She got 135 votes.)
- They're in first place! - They are.
How amazing!
- Next is "Mountain Problem". - Okay.
Hello, I'm a man in his 40s with a family of 6.
We have so many valuable things.
We have ragwort, wild chives, and wild edible greens.
- My goodness. - We also have medicinal herbs...
such as fleeceflowers and wild ginseng.
My mother goes to the mountains every day...
- My word. - to pick all kinds of plants.
She's so diligent.
However, there's a problem.
"Mom! What's wrong with your arm?"
"I got scratched in the mountains."
"I also tripped..."
"and almost fell down a cliff."
"Oh, right. I also saw a mamushi."
"It almost bit me."
- Oh, my. - That's terrible.
- She's laughing about it? - Yes, she is.
She never returns from the mountains unscathed.
"Son, I'm going to go out right now."
She stays out for at least two days and at most a week.
There were times when I couldn't even reach her.
- Oh, my. - Goodness.
"My goodness, my legs."
"My goodness, my back."
"Why do you keep going there when your body aches?"
"You don't even have a strong back to climb the mountains."
"I'm not going there for fun."
"It's all for you."
"There's no point in raising children."
"I'm so hurt and sad."
But you see, it doesn't do me any good.
Please dissuade my mother.
This is the worry.
(Please dissuade her from climbing the mountains.)
Sir, do you relate more to the son or his mother?
I don't think it's a problem.
- Why not? - Why not?
You'll become sick if you're told not to move around at my age.
She almost got bitten by a snake.
- It doesn't matter. - She fell, and her back...
- is hurt. - No.
Your body will become healthy if you do what you want to do.
- I know this. - I think he's right.
What if your wife wanted to climb the mountains?
That's a bit different.
She's 65 years old now.
(He's impossible.)
- Let's meet him. - All right.
Come on out.
(Who is this man whose mother always climbs the mountains?)
(Park Jang Soo)
(I like his beard.)
You look like someone who'd live in the mountains.
It seems like you just came from there.
I do hear that a lot.
Our customers ask me why I'm not in the mountains.
But I'll die if I go there.
Why? Are you scared?
I've never really climbed one.
- I see. - On my way up,
I feel like it's useless.
- On the other hand, - Right.
my mother conquers all mountains.
So you like to climb mountains.
What kinds are they?
Is it Mount Taebaek? Mount Jiri?
You should ask him, not her.
- She's not in the shot yet. - I see.
- So please ask him. - All right.
I didn't know where you were looking.
I'm also startled to see him.
Right. I'm a bit scared.
Anyway, I'm curious about something.
Does she climb mountains that are far away?
She's already conquered the ones nearby.
She frequents all the steep mountains...
we know of such as Mount Taebaek or Mount Jiri.
My word.
This is why I'm worried.
If she returns before sundown, I'm relieved.
But at times, I can't reach her for an entire week.
- You can't reach her? - Does she sleep in the mountains?
Does she camp out?
My mother knows all the saunas...
that are nearby the mountains.
- Saunas? - I see.
Saunas.
Is she a member of a hiking club?
- No, she's alone. - She hikes that high alone?
Yes. She drives.
- I understand. - She doesn't tell me about it.
She knows I'll nag.
She knows she'll feel sorry if I get upset,
so she tells my wife.
But isn't it good to consume the herbs...
- that she brings? - It must be.
- Such as wild ginseng. - It'll be good for her health.
- Your customers will like them too. - Right.
We throw out 70 to 80 percent of the herbs she digs.
- Goodness. - It's because...
she doesn't get them from the trees.
- She picks them up? - Right, she does.
That's why most of them are inedible.
One time, my children told me...
not to go to the bathroom, so I asked why.
They said it was a mess, so I opened the door.
You know those scenes where bugs are crawling all over?
There were that many bugs in the bathroom?
- Because... - You're overreacting.
No, I'm serious.
When I was in there, the bugs fell on me.
- From the ceiling? - Yes.
(That's so disturbing.)
What do you do with the ones that aren't rotten?
We share them with our neighbors and friends.
With the leftovers, we make pickles out of them...
- I see. - or liquor.
- Liquor? - It's precious.
There's a box where we store all the liquor.
The entire room is filled with liquor.
- It is? - Yes.
- All of those? - Goodness.
- Is that wild ginseng? - The third one is fleeceflower.
- Fleeceflower? - Yes.
The one on the far left must be wild ginseng with leaves.
- Wild ginseng? - You're right.
- She dug that out as well? - Goodness.
I see bellflower roots as well.
- My gosh. - Goodness.
- She dug this much? - Yes.
Are those deodeok or bellflower roots?
- I think they're ginseng. - Ginseng?
- Yes. - Ginseng.
- That's wild ginseng. - How old is that?
(Wild ginseng)
- It's wild ginseng. - She got that?
- Yes. - Sir, how old do you think it is?
Roughly speaking, it looks to be about 50 to 100 years old.
- That costs several 10,000 dollars. - Goodness.
I don't think there's even a set price for that.
I don't know what you'll think about this, but in the morning,
my mother tells me to drink something.
It tastes bitter and odd.
When I ask her what it is, she says it's ground wild ginseng.
She ground it?
- Are you bragging? - Morning wild ginseng.
- Morning wild ginseng. - My gosh.
- How is this a worry? - My word.
Goodness.
- Not many people get to have that. - Come on, now.
"Mom, why is this radish kimchi so bitter?"
"That's because it's made of wild ginseng."
(It's an excellent comparison.)
- Wild ginseng radish kimchi. - Goodness.
(I'm jealous.)
So this is my worry.
Three years ago, she received surgery for her back.
- She has eight pins in her back. - Why?
It's because she rolled down the mountains.
Goodness.
She also fell down a cliff.
Such accidents injured her back.
But only three months after the surgery...
- She climbed the mountains? - Three months?
It could've been less.
She told me she'd go on a light hike.
So I tried getting mad at her to stop her...
- from going. - I understand.
In spite of that, is she still climbing the mountains?
That's exactly why I'm here.
All right. Let's meet his mother, who loves climbing.
Here she is.
Hello.
- Oh, my. She looks so adorable. - Hello.
She doesn't look like someone who'd climb the mountains.
- She looks so fancy. - She's gorgeous.
- She looks like a singer. - I dolled up for today.
- Thank you. - Do you enjoy climbing that much?
Yes.
I've been climbing mountains for 10 years now.
I know what kinds of herbs...
- are in season, so I must go. - Right.
- Does the mountain call for you? - I even have trouble...
sleeping at night.
I wonder, "Should I go get those herbs or not?"
"I need to get them this spring."
- These are my worries. - Right.
That's why.
Which mountains do you usually climb?
I usually trek around Hongcheon, Gangwon Province.
I hike along Mount Gariwang.
I also go to Mount Bangtae, Mount Hambaek,
and Mount Taebaek.
Please list them all.
I've covered Hongseong and the mountains...
- "Hongseong"? - by the seaside in Yangyang.
I also trekked around Deokjeok Island...
- Really? - and Saryang Island.
I bet you've been to most mountains.
I once counted all the mountains I've been to.
I listed them all.
I went to about 1,300 mountains.
- That many? - Yes.
- I went to most of them. - Ma'am.
- It's because of my son. - To my knowledge,
- it's illegal to dig out herbs... - Right.
without permission. Did you know that?
Of course, I know that.
This is a law-governed country, you know? I can read too.
I'll be fined 7,000 dollars for illegally gathering ginseng.
I'll be incarcerated for 6 to 7 months.
- So you only dig legally? - Of course.
- But... - I can't just go around freely...
- picking herbs. - What do you usually pick...
- when you go there? - There are seasonal herbs.
During springtime, there's Korean thistle.
Right.
- Also... - Korean thistle?
During fall,
there are pine mushrooms and shingled hedgehogs.
- And... - I see.
There's toadstool, hoof fungus,
- lingzhi mushrooms, - Lingzhi mushrooms?
- There's a variety. - Ma'am,
my father has his eyes on the wild ginseng.
- Right. - So...
I've dug out 29 roots of chunsam.
- And in total, I've dug out... - My word.
a bit over 40 roots.
I'd like to apologize to her son.
After listening to her,
I've realized that this isn't a simple hobby.
You need to stop her.
This won't do.
He suddenly changed his thoughts.
No, this is serious.
(Do you finally understand me?)
I saw many bottles of liquor in your room.
Yes. I actually brought some for you all to try.
- The director should also try some. - Goodness.
Really? Your homemade liquor?
- Yes. - Goodness.
(Impressed)
Those are very precious.
(Wake up.)
You see...
(Ta-da)
(Here's the fleeceflower liquor.)
You see...
(His eyes are fixated on it.)
- Goodness. - Look at that color.
- Is this fleeceflower? - Yes.
- They're all made of fleeceflower. - Right?
- Yes. - I've never seen Dong Yeob...
look this happy before.
- Thank you. - Ma'am, bless your heart.
(He feels honored.)
- Thank you. - Ma'am, bless your heart.
(He's 100-percent sincere.)
- Thank you. - Goodness.
Look at the color.
This is fleeceflower root, right? How old is it?
That liquor is six years old.
- It's six years old. - Does it have medicinal value?
There is a saying that peeing on fleeceflower root...
- will make you have a son. - That's right.
That's right. After 3 shots, even an 80-year-old man...
Is that so?
(Gosh, Dong Yeob.)
Then I won't drink it since too much stamina is bad.
(I already have enough stamina.)
He doesn't need it.
I can't help but worry.
Do you stay at saunas even when you go on...
a week-long hiking trip?
Saunas have good facilities.
I take a bath and sweat in the evening.
Then I sleep well and take a shower in the morning.
Ma'am, that isn't the problem.
You keep facing dangerous situations.
For example, you run into a snake.
There are many dangerous situations. I can't even list all of them.
One time, I was about to get up after eating yogurt.
Right next to me, a venomous snake was holding up its head.
- Was it coiled up? - That means...
I was startled, but I said,
"I am sorry I trespassed on your territory."
- "I will get going." - Did it accept your apology?
Of course.
Okay.
Having a killing intent will only hurt me.
Ma'am, there were more dangerous situations...
you never told your son, right?
(There were more dangerous situations, right?)
(She admits it.)
- Yes. - My goodness.
- One time, I fell from a tree. - You fell from a tree.
My goodness.
I rolled down 20m.
- But I got caught in the branches. - You got caught in the branches.
- My goodness. - What if that hadn't happened?
Underneath was a cliff.
(Underneath was a cliff.)
There were only rocks on the bottom.
- Ma'am. - I would have died.
(Had she fallen, she would have died.)
(Her story gives them chills.)
- My goodness. - People don't frequent the place,
so my body wouldn't have been found fo a month.
My goodness, Ma'am.
- My goodness. - I think...
the higher power caught me.
- Then... - How could you talk about it...
so nonchalantly?
"I think the higher power..."
We are entertained,
but I can tell that your son is pained...
- from his facial expression. - That's right.
You shouldn't hike so much when you received a surgery.
Aren't you scared?
Listen. If something is beyond my capabilities,
I need to let other people take care of it.
Doctors take care of diseases...
and the higher power takes care of lives.
- My goodness. - Ma'am.
She is beyond worldly matters. She became an ascetic.
(How could you say something like that?)
- Why are you laughing? - I heard this story...
a while after it happened.
She woke up in the middle of the night once...
due to an upset stomach from eating poisonous mushrooms.
My goodness.
(She had eaten poisonous mushrooms.)
- Poisonous mushrooms. - Afraid that...
I would nag at her,
she drove to the emergency room by herself...
and got treated.
Mushrooms can be dangerous.
- That's right. - I know.
The more beautiful they are...
Beautiful mushrooms are often poisonous.
That's why a woman shouldn't be too beautiful.
(We are of the same mind.)
How did you jump to that conclusion?
It's really like that.
(They unite.)
(It's strangely persuasive.)
Have there been other dangerous situations?
- There is a plant, fairy bell. - What is that?
- It sprouts in Spring. - I see.
Young leaves are edible,
but they become poisonous when the plant blooms flowers.
- What happened? - Not knowing that,
I added gochujang and doenjang...
and mixed it with rice.
After I chewed 3 or 4 times, my tongue rolled in.
(After I chewed 3 or 4 times, my tongue rolled in.)
After I chewed 3 or 4 times...
(Her life was in danger while having a meal.)
- My goodness. - That's how poisonous it is.
Did you go to the emergency room?
I went to the emergency room and got my stomach pumped.
Most people would be too scared afterward.
- But... - Is life up to the higher power?
The gift from the higher power...
is forgetfulness. I forget.
- Forgetfulness. - You might end up hurting...
- your family members. - I forget easily.
Are the children okay?
There haven't been a serious incident...
- with children. - Thank goodness.
- Thank goodness. - You know,
looking at the sons tells me...
they have stayed healthy.
They have stayed healthy.
(They strongly agree.)
It's nice to see Grandma happy...
after she gathers a lot of medicinal herbs.
- My goodness. - However, when I see her...
in pain due to an injury...
(It makes my heart ache.)
What was the tastiest thing she has brought home?
Mushroom.
- Mushroom. - He isn't a picky eater.
What is your favorite food?
(What is your favorite food?)
(He smacks his lips.)
- He is smacking his lips. - Why are you smacking your lips?
My favorite food is...
(My favorite food is...)
(Expectant)
- Tonkatsu? - Pizza.
Children are like that.
How many times a week do you eat pizza?
- Pizza? - Yes.
I can't eat it often because it's expensive.
- How cute! - That liquor is more expensive.
- How cute! - The third child.
Don't touch yourself.
(Everyone bursts out laughing.)
The third child is the most relaxed.
Have you tried herbs and mushrooms your grandma brought home?
- Yes. - Are they tasty?
No.
What do you like the best?
- Chicken. - Chicken.
Chicken.
(Chicken is the best.)
- Pizza and chicken. - They are young.
Do you like it when Grandma goes to the mountain?
I don't know.
Don't you have any interest in your grandma?
No.
(She had put her guard down.)
(It's a critical blow.)
He is in second grade.
(He is an honest boy.)
What do you think about your mother-in-law's hobby?
It's nice that she goes to mountains,
but I want her to be careful.
She goes to mountains without telling anyone.
When she comes back, her legs are covered in bruises.
Her body gets swollen too.
But she says, "It's okay. I love going to the mountains."
Then she goes again.
- You can't stop her. - No.
(Please take care of your body.)
I can't help but think that hiking in moderation...
will improve your health...
and ease your son's worries.
Why do you go to the mountains so frequently?
I think I became absorbed in this hobby...
because my daughter refused to have a child after getting married.
I said I will look after the child and moved to Seoul in 2006...
to do exactly that.
I fed and looked after the child all day long.
When my daughter came home at 6 or 7pm,
she went into the room with her child.
Then various thoughts made me tear up.
- I became depressed. - I understand.
I would come out at night...
and walk to Seogang Bridge and Banpo Bridge...
before going back home.
- You were lonely. - At the mountains,
I found many plants that resembled me.
They grow at a certain place even when no one looks at them.
(Mother, depend on us.)
Comparing myself to nature...
made me love the mountains. Then I began to think,
"Shall I gather some herbs for my children?"
That's how this hobby started.
(Her daughter was the cause of her hobby.)
I can see how it happened.
At the age of 18,
my mom gave birth to my big brother.
- At the age of 18? - Yes.
She had me at the age of 20.
She began to run a business at the age of 21.
- She was 21 years old. - That's right.
(Instead of enjoying her youth,)
(she entered the workforce.)
She has run a Chinese restaurant, a barbecue restaurant,
a tonkatsu restaurant, and a coffee shop.
(She did whatever she could.)
(Thinking about the past...)
(makes her eyes teary.)
When she moved to Seoul to help me raise my child,
she had to quit work.
She couldn't spend her energy properly.
(After a busy life, she suddenly faced emptiness.)
I think that's why...
she gathers herbs, but it's too much.
I hope she does it in moderation.
- My goodness. - Ma'am,
why did you shed tears...
- when your daughter talked? - Your eyes turned red.
Having conversations with my son and daughter...
as well as famous celebrities...
- about my matter... - Does it make you happy?
makes me so happy.
There haven't been many instances when people listened to you.
- No. - I see.
I have so much to say.
- She must have been lonely. - She is about my age.
I also have a son and a daughter.
As someone who is in the same age group,
I understand why she is so intent on going...
to the mountains.
I respect you, Hye Jung.
I have so much respect for her.
She has lived so diligently.
- I respect diligent people. - That's right.
Do you mean you understand her?
What?
At first, you understood her. Then you didn't. Now, you do.
- I understand and respect her. - I see.
Please stick to one position.
Sir.
(I will try.)
I understand that you are worried, but don't you get...
- why she goes to the mountains? - I really get it.
If she goes to the mountains...
to overcome hardships and depression,
I am all for it.
If she wants to go to the mountains after she loses mobility,
I can carry her on my back.
- That's right. - That isn't the problem.
- But before that time comes, - You are worried.
she has a good life ahead of her. My mother is still young.
(I am truly worried about my mother's life.)
Ma'am, when you go to the mountains,
in which position do you gather herbs?
- Is that the position? - My goodness.
- Is that the position? - Most of the times,
I gather herbs in that position.
For how many hours do you spend in that position?
Let's say you are gathering one of these.
Gathering a fleeceflower root like that one takes about two hours.
(She needs to crouch for 2 hours.)
You see the X-sign over the image, right?
- It's the worst for the back. - That's right.
My goodness.
What is that position?
I sit in that position to pick herbs.
Sometimes, my knees become red and swollen.
- My goodness. - Ma'am.
- It's the worst for your discs. - That's right.
- You are doing the worst things. - I see.
You understand why your son sent us...
the worry, right? He is worried.
- That's right. - Let's say...
your son rides a motorcycle to relieve his stress.
It would be okay if he goes at the right speed,
but he rides it too often...
and gets injured in accidents.
However, he doesn't say anything in order to keep you from worrying.
How would you feel?
(How would you feel?)
Say what you want to say to your mother.
When you go to the mountains,
you should look at the trees instead of picking herbs.
(You should look at the trees instead of picking herbs.)
You should smell herbs...
- and work out. - It will be a healing experience.
- Yes. - It's not the amount that matters.
The amount of herbs you bring...
equals the amount of my worries.
- That's a good expression. - He is a cool man.
Ma'am, aster scaber and fischer's ragwort...
will grow next year as well. However, you don't see...
your grandchildren grow after a certain time.
- You don't need to go far. - That's right.
You are in the middle of happiness.
- Don't look for what's missing. - That's right.
Focus on what you have.
I promise in front of the audience.
(She makes a sudden promise.)
I won't pick a lot of herbs and listen to my children.
(We root for her decision.)
That's good.
How many times a week will you go to the mountains?
- Once. - Twice.
How about two light hikes?
- Don't go far. - That's good enough.
- I hope she would enjoy it. - Yes.
Let's start with Seung Hyun.
- I think her mindset changed. - Yes.
- You don't think it's a worry. - I don't think it's a worry.
You said you will be honest.
You changed your mind multiple times.
(The 1st thought: It isn't a worry.)
Why?
(The 2nd thought: It's a worry.)
(The 3rd thought: It isn't a worry.)
I have so much respect for her.
(What will be the final choice of Seung Hyun's father?)
- I think it's a worry. - You think it's a worry.
(It changed again.)
If I put myself in her son's shoes,
her hobby is too excessive.
I think it's a big worry.
She has a way with words.
She should have a YouTube channel.
I had the same thought.
It will be nice if you inform people...
about different herbs.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
Five.
In 5, 4,
- 3, - My goodness.
- 2, 1. - Time's up.
Show us the result.
I am curious.
(The result)
Did the worry get over 100 votes?
My goodness.
(How many people related to the worry?)
Eight.
- 128 votes. - 128 votes.
(He got 128 votes.)
Thus, "My Husband Changed" won this week.
We will give the winner the prize money.
Until the day we are all worry-free...
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.